Community guidelines

Kind, useful, and yours.

Five rules for this community. They're short on purpose — the point is to support each other, not to read fine print.

Rule 1

Lead with kindness

Every parent here is doing their best with what they have. Assume good faith. Critique ideas, never people.

Rule 2

Center lived experience

Share what worked (or didn't) for your family. Avoid prescribing what others must do.

Rule 3

No harm, no hate

Zero tolerance for cure rhetoric, ABA debates that punch down, ableism, or attacks on autistic adults.

Rule 4

Protect kids' privacy

Don't share identifying photos, full names, school names, or medical records of children — yours or others.

Rule 5

No medical or legal advice

Share experiences and resources; flag licensed professionals. Don't diagnose or prescribe in threads.

If something breaks the rules

Use the flag button on any post or comment. A person reads reports. Beyond Typical is volunteer-run, so that can take a few days. The same rules apply to everyone. Repeated violations can lead to a warning, then a timeout, then a ban.

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