Plain-language guides, written by a parent.
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Pre-diagnosis
Before the diagnosis
Signs by age, free screeners, scripts for the pediatrician, and what to do today — no diagnosis required.
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Just diagnosed
Day one — the first-year roadmap
Week 1, Month 1, Year 1. What to do, what can wait, and what you can skip entirely.
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School
The IEP playbook
Your IDEA rights, federal timelines, SMART goal templates, and a sample evaluation-request letter.
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Therapy
Vetting ABA (and the alternatives)
20 questions to ask any provider, red and green flags, and assent-based vs. compliance-based models.
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Money
Insurance & Medicaid waivers
ERISA vs. fully-insured, how waiver waitlists work, and a sample appeal letter for denials.
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Regulation
Meltdowns & sensory regulation
Meltdown vs. tantrum, the rumble stage, in-the-moment steps, and a calm-down kit checklist.
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Family
Talking to family & friends
Scripts for grandparents, siblings, holidays, and turning family into real, practical help.
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Daily life
Potty, sleep, eating & hygiene
The everyday skills that take longer — toilet training, sleep, food chaining, haircuts — without the shame spiral.
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Teens
Teen years & transition to adulthood
Puberty, the transition IEP, work and college paths, SSI at 18, and guardianship vs. alternatives.
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Safety
Wandering & elopement safety
Why kids wander, home and water safeguards, and what to do in the first minutes if your child goes missing.
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Safety
Emergency-ready: 911, police & the ER
A one-page profile, 911 scripts, meeting local responders, and a disaster go-bag for autistic kids.
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Communication
Communication & AAC
What AAC is, the myths that delay it, and how to get a device evaluated, funded, and used every day.
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School
When school calls about behavior
FBAs, behavior plans, the 10-day suspension line, manifestation reviews, and why early pickups count.
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School
Bullying — spot it and use your rights
Warning signs, how to document and report it, and when bullying becomes disability harassment.
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Money
Money after 18: SSI, ABLE & trusts
How SSI changes at 18, the $2,000 limit, ABLE accounts, and special needs trusts, in plain language.
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Teens & adults
Supported decision-making
Supported decision-making, powers of attorney, rep payees, and when limited guardianship fits.
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Teens & adults
Puberty & body safety
Plain-language teaching for puberty, privacy, consent, and online safety — early, concrete, and often.
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Health
Doctor, dentist & shots
Calmer doctor and dentist visits: accommodations to ask for, shot plans, and comfort holds.
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Family
Caregiver burnout & respite
Burnout signs, where to find respite, how waivers and vouchers can pay for it, and an emergency backup plan.
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